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How to stop comparing yourself


         If you are reading this blog post,then you might have been comparing yourself with others.. atleast some point of your life... don't lie to yourself...it's a common thing we in our life compare many things to others which don't make sense at all...and there's nothing to do with that....
               
Coming to the point there are 2 types of comparison in our lives...:

 Good comparison
 Bad comparison

Good comparison :


It is a type of comparison,which makes you happy and privileged....

For instance, consider a man who is walking on a street and found a pair of shoes in a shop and wanted he  to buy them,but he cannot afford those shoes...and feel so bad about that...and then he come across a man without legs crawling on the road...on looking to that man...he changes his mind and feels great full for what he is having.....
all you should show is gratitude
These kind of comparisons will let you to leave a happy life..sometimes comparisons also have some benefits.

Bad comparison :

In this kind of comparisons, we make ourselves to ruin our day....by unnecessary comparisons... 

For instance, consider me,as i am a upcoming blogger...if I read blog post of any top bloggers and compare them with my blogs...and I realized that my blog post don't even reach upto measure of them....and then if  i throw the idea of writing blog post....then it will be a big disaster... 


This type of comparisons are big evils of one's life....

Rather than feeling bad about yourself by comparing with people superior to you...try to learn something from them.. because even they have started from zero and made upto success now....




Try to make things which will help you in your growth.. strengthen your strengths not your weaknesses......

Be great full....🤩

Thank you for reading my blog... please do share to your friends Nd family...see you in my next blog post...

           Cheers....!

     Anusha kadarla....



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